Usually, the best initial potty training age is somewhere around 18 months, but first you need to make sure that your child is ready and able to do the necessary skills.
Each child will develop at his/her own pace and children with developmental disabilities may need to start at an older age.
When to Start:
Many of the required behaviors, as well as those associated with using the toilet, are listed on my free printable reward charts to help motivate children in learning and get them excited about becoming a big kid. Knowing when to start the recommended 3 day potty training process, is based on when your child is able to perform all of the following necessary behaviors.
• Elimination muscles have reached full maturity (occurs sometime between 12 and 24 months)- this is indicated by(1):
- Child awareness of needing to go – ex. may grunt during BM - Long periods of dryness - Urinating large amounts at one time - Somewhat regular bowel movements
• Shows interest in using the toilet • Able to effectively indicate the need to go with words, signs or pictures. • Knows the difference between wet and dry • Able to follow 1-2 step directions • Ability to pull pants up and down independently • Willing to sit on his/her chair or toilet for at least 1 minute • Demonstrates imitation behavior • Shows desire to gain approval from others
Although, the average age for potty training is around 18-24 months, some children may show readiness prior to this age or much later, especially children with characteristics for autism. It really depends on whether the child is able to do the behaviors listed above.
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